~* The Very First Date *~

First date huh???i'm sure everyone have gone through wif their own first date rite??? as a gurl or boy,what do u expect from ur first date or the very first person u're going out wif??? as for me,i never expect anything coz i love to follow the flow...just wait n see what's going to happen after dat...The best strategy for a great first date is to go into it with the goal of simply enjoying yourself, instead of harboring an agenda to win him over.Now, a lot of first dates seem to be to go to watch a movie same like my first date, which really surprises me. How can you get to know someone if you can’t talk to them? Sure, a movie does give you something in common to talk about afterward, but if you are really find it that hard to talk to someone, then other activities may be better for you.


you should ask yourself what do you want on your first date...watching movie??? going for picnic or amusement park???


Be creative.

Take a little time to think it through.A three-hour date with a movie that lasts two and a half-hours is not a good way to get acquainted.Then again, you don't want to be stuck staring at each other without a topic of conversation. A daytime meeting takes the heat off. If the weather is likely to be decent, then a walk along a beach, or a river bank can give you the chance to talk, or a trip to a park, or a crazy golf course, where your score really doesn’t matter. It is the activity, while finding out about the new person in your life that is importnat, not who wins. 


If the weather is good, then a picnic can give you both the chance to talk, in any location you choose, and it doesn’t have to cost an arm and a leg either.  Some stores will make up picnic baskets for you, but it doesn’t need a lot of imagination to come up with a few treats, to share in the wonderful outdoors.


If you have an amusement park close by, your first date could be there, although these can tend to get expensive by the time you add everything up. You do not want to end up in debt over this first date.

The safe date is always a meal at a mid range restaurant, or perhaps you just want to meet for a coffee and see how that goes first, but plan an extension to this in case you both want to extend the time together.

You don’t want to go high end and end up having to do something better than that later, but nor do you want to go the fast food route, so just go with something that feels comfortable, so that you and your date can relax, and enjoy one anothers company.

what about clothing?Clothing is not optional.Wear clothes that make you feel good.New clothes always help - but if not new, be sure they're clean, pressed, and fit well - or if that's not your style - be sure they fit whatever way makes you feel the most comfortable and still look presentable.

Manners or Kindness

Thank the other person for the date - always, without exception. Good manners are still in style. Well, not necessarily good manners - but common sense. Human kindness. That sort of thing is always in style.

Focus on the Other Person - pay attention to your date. No wandering eyes. No preoccupation with old relationships, work, bank robberies.Be THERE.

Listen actively to what your date says. Don't interrupt. While your date is talking, don't spend time thinking about what you're going to say when it's your turn.

So think carefully about your first date ideas, and choose one that feels good to you, and all should go well for you both.

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